everybody has a secret I hate my boyfriend's group chat
Nov 20, 2025
The hosts dive into their reactions to a fan edit, sparking a debate about the attractiveness of hands. They uncover a dramatic group-chat incident where one host mysteriously got removed over a DM. A listener’s secret reveals shocking screenshots from a boys' group chat, leading to a discussion on toxic masculinity and whether partners should attend events like bucks parties. Personal anecdotes add a humorous touch, while role-playing a confrontation raises the stakes on addressing these secrets.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Hand Attraction Tied To Intimacy
- Annabelle and Charlotte discuss being attracted to hands and connect it to intimacy and acts of service.
- Hands can signal care and hand-holding chemistry beyond mere physical features.
Partner Group Chat Horror
- Nina describes discovering toxic messages in her boyfriend Damon's friends' boys' group chat after a partners' catch-up.
- Screenshots showed negging, homophobic slurs, and a groom nicknamed after Andrew Tate, which upset her deeply.
Silence Is Social Pressure, Not Agreement
- Hosts note male group-chat toxicity often stems from peer pressure and legacy friendship dynamics.
- Decent men may stay silent to avoid ridicule rather than actively endorse harmful rhetoric.