In this conversation, Shaye Koester-Wanner and Terryn Drieling explore the importance of communication in ranching, particularly during high-stress situations. They discuss the role of self-awareness and the Enneagram in understanding personal and interpersonal dynamics. The conversation emphasizes practical strategies for improving communication skills, assessing one's communication effectiveness, and managing emotional responses in challenging environments. Terryn shares insights on fostering a supportive community among ranchers and the significance of honest questions in enhancing communication.

Takeaways

• Self-awareness is crucial for effective communication.
• The Enneagram helps understand the 'why' behind behaviors.
• Good communication ensures safety in high-stress situations.
• Reflecting on past interactions aids in improving communication skills.
• Asking honest questions can enhance understanding and connection.
• Grounding techniques can help manage emotional responses.
• Modeling desired communication behaviors influences others.
• Curiosity is essential for fostering better communication.
• Connection and open communication are vital for family operations.

Chapters

00:00 Revisiting Communication on the Ranch

05:44 The Importance of Effective Communication

08:46 Understanding the Enneagram and Self-Awareness

11:22 Assessing Communication Skills

15:34 Improving Communication Skills

18:30 Managing Emotions in High-Stress Situations

21:08 Dealing with Reactive Individuals

24:29 The Ripple Effect of Energy in Communication

27:14 Final Thoughts on Communication

Resources

Top Dollar Angus https://topdollarangus.com/ 

RancherMinds https://www.casualcattleconversations.com/ranchermind-events 

Terryn's Website https://faithfamilyandbeef.com/ 

How to Set Goals for Your Ranch https://www.casualcattleconversations.com/ranchermind-events/p/move-the-ranch-forward-2025