Former ABC News anchor Dan Harris interviews Sharon Salzberg about her new book 'Finding Your Way'. They discuss the concept of living an authentic life, the power of paying attention, the process of mourning, and the balance between structured and unstructured meditation practices.
Living an authentic life involves genuine connection with others and oneself.
Receiving generosity requires practice and observing acts of kindness without control or attachment.
Deep dives
The Authentic Life
In the interview, Sharon Salzberg discusses the concept of living an authentic life. She shares her personal experience of the pandemic, where her expectations were shattered, and she found unexpected connection and authenticity in virtual interactions. She emphasizes the importance of genuine connection with others and oneself, beyond the superficial meaning of authenticity. She highlights the significance of paying attention to our motivations and intentions, cultivating genuine compassion, and avoiding attachment and control.
Receiving Generosity
Salzberg addresses the difficulty many people experience when receiving generosity. She shares her observation of people, even caregivers and helpers, struggling to accept and appreciate acts of kindness. Salzberg states that receiving generosity is a practice in itself and requires paying attention to our reactions and feelings. She draws inspiration from her friend, Ram Dass, who found it challenging to receive after experiencing a massive stroke. Salzberg emphasizes that true love and compassion involve observing and appreciating acts of kindness without control or attachment.
Emptiness and Interconnection
Within the interview, the discussion touches upon the Buddhist concept of emptiness and its relationship with interconnection. Salzberg explains that emptiness does not mean hollowness or non-existence, but rather the absence of a fixed, independent self. She highlights that by recognizing the interconnection of all things, we deepen our understanding of emptiness. The conversation explores the importance of both relative and ultimate levels of reality, where relative truth allows for the experience of interconnectedness and compassion, while ultimate truth reveals emptiness and impermanence.
The Edge of Practice
Salzberg discusses her current edge in her personal practice. She shares that she has been exploring the balance between structured and unstructured practices. While she has been primarily focusing on open spacious awareness and mindfulness, she feels inclined to reintegrate loving-kindness practice into her formal practice routine. Salzberg emphasizes the importance of paying attention to the nuances of practice and being curious about our experiences and motivations.
For episode 226 of the Metta Hour, we’re bringing you an episode from the Ten Percent Happier Podcast in which Dan Harris interviews Sharon about her brand new book, “Finding Your Way.”
You can get a copy of “Finding Your Way” in hardcover or ebook formats at our website.
Dan Harris is a former ABC News anchor who, after reporting all over the world, experienced an on-air panic attack while hosting Good Morning America. Despite initial misgivings, he turned to meditation and changed his life for the better. He is the author of the book “10% Happier,” a #1 New York Times bestseller, and the Ten Percent Happier podcast host.
In this conversation, Sharon and Dan discuss:
• The impetus for Sharon’s new book
• What Sharon means by “an authentic life”
• Learning to be your own BFF
• How the notion of self-love squares with the Buddhist notion of emptiness
• Why it can be harder to receive love and help than to give it
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