

732. Look For These Signs of an Emotionally Healthy Man When Dating
Dec 10, 2024
In this enlightening conversation, GS Youngblood, acclaimed author of "The Masculine in Relationship," explores the modern landscape of masculinity and relationships. He addresses the importance of emotional safety over financial stability and highlights the traits of an emotionally healthy man, such as self-awareness and effective communication. The discussion contrasts the 'nice guy' versus 'bad boy' dynamic, while emphasizing playful communication and the significance of male growth-focused groups. GS also shares insights on how men can express feelings without blame, fostering deeper connections.
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Overcorrection of Masculinity
- Men are receiving the message that traditional masculinity is bad.
- They are overcorrecting and becoming reticent to assert themselves.
Relationship Dynamics
- Women seek connection and double down when they don't feel it, becoming more demanding.
- Men retract when things get tough, leading to a toxic chaser-follower dynamic.
Feelings First, Facts Later
- Address feelings first, then facts, especially with women.
- Validate her feelings; let her feel you feeling her.