Less Stress, More Joy This Holiday Season (With Ashlee Eiland)
Nov 12, 2024
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Join Ashlee Eiland, an inspiring pastor, community leader, and author, as she shares her wisdom on navigating the often overwhelming holiday season. Discover practical tips for prioritizing joy over stress and the importance of open communication within families. Ashlee discusses mindful gift-giving and creating meaningful traditions while setting healthy boundaries amidst familial pressures. She emphasizes valuing authentic communication and the necessity of scheduled downtime, ensuring the holidays are not just busy, but truly enjoyable.
Establishing clear intentions for gift-giving, such as using thoughtful categories, can significantly reduce holiday overwhelm and enhance joy.
Scheduling intentional rest days helps families reconnect and deepen their relationships amid the hectic holiday season, promoting overall enjoyment.
Deep dives
The Importance of Thoughtful Gift-Giving
Gift-giving during the holidays can be overwhelming, but setting clear intentions can transform this experience. One effective approach is to establish a rubric for gifts that includes categories like something wanted, something needed, something to wear, something to read, and a gift for someone in need. This strategy not only helps in managing expectations but also encourages thoughtfulness and creativity. By tracking what children express interest in throughout the year, parents can be more strategic about their purchases, prioritizing meaningful gifts over quantity.
Creating Family Success Measures
Defining what success looks like for a family is essential, particularly during the busy holiday season. A key aspect of this process involves setting aside time for family meetings where everyone can voice their desires and concerns regarding upcoming events. This encourages collaboration and ensures that every family member feels heard and valued. Additionally, assigning specific family members to communicate boundary-setting with extended family can streamline conversations and reduce stress during the holidays.
Managing Holiday Stress through Accountability
Building accountability into holiday preparations can help alleviate feelings of stress and overwhelm. Identifying an accountability partner can create a support system focused on celebrating progress and maintaining commitment to family values. This positive approach to accountability emphasizes encouragement over judgment, fostering a collective sense of purpose. Understanding that personal and family needs deserve to be prioritized, families are encouraged to check in with each other and hold conversations about expectations.
Prioritizing Rest Amidst the Holiday Hustle
The importance of scheduling rest during the hectic holiday season cannot be overstated. Families can benefit from intentionally carving out 'no days,' where they can step back from their busy routines and focus on what actually nourishes them. This may take the form of regular traditions like Sabbath days or simply choosing specific moments to relax and reconnect. By being proactive about these pauses in activity, families can reduce stress, enhance their enjoyment of the season, and foster deeper connections.
Does the holiday season really need to be so overwhelming? Janet admits she gets caught up in the bustle and excitement of holiday festivities. While her intention every year is to pare down to make more room for meaningful moments with her loved ones, she still finds herself shopping until the last minute for the perfect gift and wrapping into the wee hours of Christmas Day. Janet's more than ready to take off her Santa hat and find ways to do less and enjoy more but doesn't know exactly how to make it happen.
Happily, this week's guest is inspirational pastor and community leader Ashlee Eiland, who shares loads of wisdom and actionable suggestions for prioritizing joy and meaning in the holidays, for our kids and us.