The New Man Can Sexual Attraction Be Repaired? — Shana James
Jan 31, 2023
Shana James, author of Honest Sex, dives into the intricacies of sexual attraction and intimacy. She discusses how genuine emotional connection and honest communication are vital for a thriving sexual life. Shana emphasizes the importance of vulnerability over superficial traits and explains how to foster deeper engagement between partners. With personal anecdotes, she navigates the delicate balance of relationship growth, encouraging couples to nurture both individual desires and mutual support for rekindling passion and connection.
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Build Ongoing Connection for Passion
- Stop acting nicer only when wanting sex; natural connection matters more.
- Build ongoing connection with honesty, care, and play to reignite passion.
Set Safety Before Hard Talks
- Prepare for honest conversations by setting safety and boundaries first.
- Discuss fears and commitments for handling difficult topics together.
Express Clear Desires for Sex
- Avoid starting sexual desire talks as complaints; focus on clear desires instead.
- Explore underlying wants for both partners to foster compassion and collaboration.
