Clear+Vivid with Alan Alda David Brooks: How to Know a Person
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Nov 21, 2023 
David Brooks, columnist and author, shares insights on truly knowing people, including the importance of storytelling conversations, genuine curiosity, and the role of community weavers in building connections. They also discuss the transformative power of personal growth and the significance of small talk in fostering trust and understanding.
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Isolation Sparked Emotional Growth
- After a difficult divorce, Brooks isolated himself, working nonstop and avoiding social contact.
- This lonely period became a turning point for growth and emotional openness.
Strangers Teach Deep Understanding
- David Brooks talks to strangers on trains to understand their unique stories and perspectives.
- He asks people how they came to believe what they do to hear meaningful life stories.
Diminishers vs. Illuminators
- People who stereotype and label others are "diminishers" who assume too much about others.
- "Illuminators" stay curious and warmly pay attention, making others feel valued and seen.