ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show 790: THE GREATEST THREAT TO OUR MARRIAGE IS APATHY
Jan 16, 2024
Apathy in marriage can create dangerous disconnects, leading to indifference and even the risk of infidelity. Discover how small changes can rekindle the spark and restore intimacy through the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Alisa and Tony share personal experiences, like confronting disengagement during a tough lunch, and emphasize the importance of individual growth. They encourage listeners to take actionable steps, such as limiting phone distractions and pursuing shared interests, to combat apathy and enrich their marital connection.
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Apathy Spreads Quietly
- Apathy is defined as a lack of feeling, interest, or concern and often looks like living as roommates.
- Tony and Alisa warn apathy spreads slowly through small disconnects and busyness before it becomes obvious.
Stop Small Disconnects Now
- Notice the small behaviors: short conversations, scrolling, being physically present but emotionally absent.
- Do stop letting distractions replace real interaction and diagnose which pillars of intimacy have cracks.
Lunch Confrontation Sparked Change
- At a Del Taco after a conference Tony confronted Alisa about seeming distant and uninterested in the marriage.
- That tense, tearful conversation forced them to face apathy and examine their six pillars of intimacy.
