

#175 Why Sex Therapy Doesn’t Work for High-Functioning Women And What Actually Does
You’ve done the therapy. You’ve read the books. You’ve tried to fix it.
But if you walked away from couples therapy or sex therapy feeling like you were the problem, this conversation will hit home.
I’m exposing the quiet harm that happens when traditional therapy fails to account for power dynamics, emotional labor, and the super traits of high-achieving women.
Let’s break it down:
- Why therapy often blames the over-functioning partner while ignoring the underfunctioner
- How high-capacity women are mislabeled as controlling, anxious, or codependent
- Why therapy’s focus on saving the relationship often gaslights women into shrinking
- What happens when your body, your nervous system, and your libido no longer feel safe
- How to stop blaming yourself and start naming the real reasons for disconnection
This is not about doing more. It’s about finally being seen. Because your libido is not low, your body is just done asking.
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-If you’re ready to uncover the truth behind erotic shutdown and finally reconnect with your pleasure, book your live Pleasure Path Assessment with Jordin. [JOIN HERE]
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-#157 The 5 Super Traits Blocking Your Desire [LISTEN HERE]