1036: James Sexton | A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Lasting Love Part Two

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Aug 22, 2024

James Sexton, a renowned divorce lawyer, shares invaluable insights on relationships and marriage. He highlights the often-overlooked legal implications of marriage, urging couples to educate themselves before saying 'I do.' Sexton discusses how social media can complicate fidelity and emphasizes the rising trend of prenuptial agreements among younger generations. He advocates for open communication about finances and future scenarios, asserting that such discussions can strengthen bonds. His perspective on embracing life's impermanence offers a refreshing approach to valuing love.

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Love vs. Marriage

James Sexton believes in love but views marriage as a state contract.
He questions the need for government involvement in love.

INSIGHT

Barriers to Exit

Marriage isn't always a good idea, and society makes it hard to leave.
Sexton suggests simplifying the exit process.

ADVICE

Planning for Failure

Acknowledge the potential for marriage failure.
Plan for it with a prenuptial agreement.

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Renowned divorce lawyer James Sexton reveals the secrets to maintaining a healthy marriage and avoiding his office altogether! [Pt. 2/2 — find part 1 here!]

What We Discuss with James Sexton:

Many people enter marriage without understanding its legal implications. James Sexton estimates that 95% of people who come to his office are learning about the marriage contract for the first time.
Social media has made infidelity much easier and more accessible. James notes that platforms like Facebook and Instagram create opportunities for inappropriate private conversations and flirtations.
Prenuptial agreements are becoming increasingly common, especially among younger people in their 20s and 30s. James observes a growing pragmatism and realism in approaching marriage.
All marriages end, either through death or divorce. James encourages people to be mindful of endings, as it can make them more appreciative of their current relationships.
Being open and honest about your concerns and fears in a relationship can strengthen your bond. Having pragmatic conversations about finances, living arrangements, and potential scenarios doesn't diminish romance — instead, it demonstrates care and foresight for your partner's well-being. Consider having these discussions and potentially creating a prenuptial agreement to ensure you're both on the same page about your future together.
And much more — be sure to tune in to part one of this conversation here for the full story!

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