Cheaper Than Therapy with Vanessa and Dené

Ep 210: Impermanence and the Transformative Power of Love with Rainier Wylde

Apr 3, 2024

Rainier Wylde, a mentor known for his blend of spirituality and strategic coaching, joins to explore the transformative power of love. He discusses the intertwined nature of love and loss, emphasizing that grief and joy coexist. Rainier delves into the misconceptions of 'fantasy love' and the evolution of relationships over time. He also reflects on the complexities of parental love and maintaining one's identity amidst deep connections. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace impermanence and authentic emotional expression.

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Quick takeaways

Embracing loss and recognizing its inevitability in love allows individuals to fully appreciate the fleeting moments shared with others.

The pursuit of 'fantasy love' often results in disillusionment, urging individuals to accept the complexities and imperfections of authentic relationships.

Navigating love's evolution requires confronting vulnerabilities and embracing uncertainty, as these elements foster deeper emotional connections and personal growth.

Deep dives

The Interconnection of Love and Loss

The concept of love is intricately linked to the experience of loss, suggesting that true appreciation for love arises through the acknowledgment of its impermanence. In discussing the author's personal experiences, the insights shared indicate that every love story begins with some form of ending, highlighting a significant aspect of human relationships. The narrative emphasizes that even joyful beginnings, such as a child's first love, entail the gradual loss of parental connection, exemplifying how love often coexists with grief. This understanding paves the way for a more profound appreciation of love, as embracing its temporary nature allows individuals to cherish the fleeting moments they share with one another.

Intro

2min

Embracing In-Person Connection and Emotional Conversations

2min

The Dance of Love and Loss

15min

Navigating Love and Attachment

31min

Navigating Love and Relationships

14min

Embracing Love and Existence

9min

Anticipation and Personal Reflection in a Book Release

2min

In this special Cheaper than Therapy episode, we sit down with our friend Rainier Wylde in person to talk about the often painful truth of love’s impermanence and conditionality, and how love can lead to personal growth. Rainier is a highly sought after mentor and consultant to authors, athletes, business professionals, coaches, healers, and ordinary radicals who want to see change in their world. He is known for his unique blend of spirituality and in depth strategic coaching and is the author of “As You Are: Meditations on Self & Other” and the co-host of Love Like Hell podcast.

Some Takeaways from this Episode:

✨The Link Between Love and Loss: The importance of embracing loss as an inevitable part of all relationships and that grief and joy are intertwined

✨Fantasy Love and Consequences: The misconceptions about the idea of “fantasy love” and pitfalls of chasing unconditional love in romantic relationships

✨ The Evolution of Love through Life: How the progression of love, from initially meeting to the mature connection highlights how love is a dynamic force that can foster profound inner growth and self-alignment

✨Parental Love and Selfhood: The complexities of parental love and the challenges of maintaining your sense of self, especially in romantic relationships

Connect with Rainer:

Podcast: Love Like Hell

Instagram: @rainerwylde

Book: As You Are: Meditations on Self and Other

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If you find value in these conversations, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast. It helps us reach a larger audience looking for soulful insights!

And, we’d love for you to join us at In Bloom, an unbelievable love and relationship summit that we’ll each be speaking at, along with The Angry Therapist, Gabor Maté, Ray Maté, Dr. Jody Carrington, Shaun Gallinos, Jillian Turecki, Dr. Jess O’Relily, and more. We hope to see you April 12-14 in Vancouver, Canada. Use code LEVELUP to receive 20% off your ticket!

Check out our newly launched online community, Cheaper Than Therapy the Community. Weekly process groups, live workshops, and one-on-one interactions with us and an amazing supportive community! Check it out here: https://vanessa-bennett-dene-logan.myshopify.com/collections/the-community

Connect with Vanessa:

Instagram: @vanessasbennett
TikTok: @thecodayoda
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@vanessabennettlmft5631

Connect with Dené:

Instagram: @dene.logan
TikTok: @denelogan

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Ep 210: Impermanence and the Transformative Power of Love with Rainier Wylde

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