

How to Become a Safe and Secure Man
Nov 7, 2024
Men often grapple with feelings of insecurity stemming from past wounds, like losing a father figure. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-reflection through practices like guided sessions and men's groups. Strengthening inner security can help break cycles of seeking external validation. The journey towards becoming a safe and secure man involves addressing insecurities and fostering integrity. This transformative process encourages healing and personal growth, paving the way for healthier relationships.
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Lorin's Father Loss Story
- Lorin Krenn shares his personal experience of losing his father to cancer at age 11 which deeply impacted his sense of safety and masculinity.
- This traumatic event marked the start of his healing and awakening journey toward becoming a safe and secure man.
Masculine Need Harms Dynamics
- A man's need for his partner to feel safe can ironically cause insecurity and pain in the relationship.
- Seeking validation through the feminine reverses the healthy masculine-feminine dynamic.
Reclaim Integrity To Feel Safe
- To become safe internally, start by reclaiming integrity, identifying where you outsource your safety to external things or people.
- Write down where you're out of integrity and what actions you need to take to align yourself inwardly.