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Sex and Psychology Podcast

Episode 329: Monogamy? In This Economy?

Sep 20, 2024
The complexities of managing finances in romantic relationships are tackled head-on. Discover why many couples are opting for separate finances, even in monogamous unions. Learn about the various financial arrangements that polyamorous individuals adopt. The conversation dives deep into how partners handle discrepancies in income and debt. Plus, uncover the surprising financial perks of having multiple partners. It's an enlightening exploration of love and money that challenges traditional approaches!
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Quick takeaways

  • The evolution of financial independence has led couples, both monogamous and polyamorous, to increasingly prefer separate finances to maintain individual autonomy.
  • Successful navigation of financial disagreements in relationships hinges on open communication and a clear understanding of differing financial priorities and obligations.

Deep dives

Shifting Financial Dynamics in Relationships

The modern approach to finances in relationships has evolved significantly, particularly since the 1970s, as women's financial independence increased. Couples, including both monogamous and polyamorous, are now more inclined to maintain separate finances rather than fully merging them upon moving in together. This change reflects a broader cultural trend where financial sharing isn't always the default assumption, allowing for individual autonomy. As a result, many polyamorous households adopt a mixed strategy of joint and separate finances, often tailoring arrangements that align with each partner's income and expenses.

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