Mattering in Love: Stop Settling—Choose Love That Sees You (Part 1) EP 576

Feb 21, 2025

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What if the missing piece in your love life isn’t about finding the right person—but about how you see yourself?

In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles explores the concept of mattering in love—why the way you perceive your own worth directly impacts the relationships you attract and accept.

Too many people stay in relationships that leave them feeling unseen, undervalued, and emotionally drained—not because they don’t want love, but because they don’t believe they truly matter.

Download the Leave Behind in the full show notes at: https://passionstruck.com/mattering-in-love/

John breaks down:
✅ How your self-worth dictates your relationship choices
✅ The danger of chasing validation instead of genuine connection
✅ Why so many people mistake attachment for love
✅ How to stop settling and start building relationships where you feel chosen, valued, and seen

If you’ve ever felt like you had to earn someone’s affection, if you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or if love has felt more like a struggle than a source of joy, this episode will change your perspective.

💡 Mattering in love starts with you—and when you believe you matter, the way you experience love will never be the same.

Tune in now and start making the shift toward love that truly fulfills you.

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