Joseph Goldstein discusses the transformative power of loving-kindness, mindfulness, and compassion in overcoming fears and limitations, fostering genuine happiness. He explores the concept of opening the heart through awareness, investigates fear and compassion, and delves into the impact of fearful thoughts. The chapter also explores the journey from awareness to method, compassion, and the cultivation of bodhijita.
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Practicing loving-kindness and compassion can overcome fears and limitations, fostering genuine happiness.
Recognizing and working with fear through mindfulness and wisdom leads to the development of compassion.
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The Practice of Collecting Attention
The first step in the Vipassana and Meta practices is to collect the scattered mind and shepherd it back to a main focus of attention, such as the breath or the body. This process of collecting attention helps to quiet the mind, create inner spaciousness, and reduce reactivity and judgment. As we settle into the simplicity of the present moment, we begin to see ourselves more clearly and discover hidden aspects of ourselves.
Clearing Out Impressions and Memories
As we continue to practice and settle into the simplicity of the present moment, there may be a flood of memories and images that emerge from the past. This process can be seen as an emptying out or clearing out of stored impressions and experiences. Memories of people, situations, and even past mistakes may resurface, sometimes carrying the same emotional charge as when they originally occurred. By attending to these memories with mindfulness and acceptance, there is a potential for purifying the mind and finding liberation from past burdens.
Softening the Mind and Opening the Heart
As we practice and abide more in the simplicity of the present moment, our minds and hearts begin to relax and open. The discursive mind quiets down, and we become less judgmental and reactive. In this state of relaxation and awareness, we start to experience feelings of metta, or loving-kindness, arising naturally. Metta is a genuine expression of goodwill towards ourselves and others, without seeking anything in return. It embraces all beings and does not easily turn into ill will. This softening of the mind and opening of the heart leads to greater forgiveness and acceptance, both towards ourselves and others.
Working with Fear and Developing Compassion
Fear often arises as we approach the edges of our comfort zones or boundaries. It is important to recognize fear as it arises, accept its presence, and shine the light of awareness upon it. We can explore the nature of fear and work with it skillfully. Sometimes, we can act courageously even when fear is present, while other times, it is necessary to retreat and regain balance and strength. The practice of mindfulness and wisdom allows us to see the insubstantial nature of fear and all phenomena, leading to the development of compassion. With compassion, we can bring a tender and caring presence to our fears and open to the suffering of ourselves and others.
Joseph Goldstein delves into the concepts of loving-kindness, compassion, and the fear of discomfort. He highlights the transformative power of loving-kindness, mindfulness, and compassion in overcoming fears and limitations, ultimately fostering genuine happiness.
This dharma talk, recorded on February 18, 1997, was originally published on Dharma Seed.
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In this lecture, Joseph:
Affirms that at the depths of our hearts and minds there is a basic reservoir of goodwill
Defines mettā, or loving-kindness, as the basic generosity of the heart
Takes note of the “upward spiral” of happiness that mindfulness and loving-kindness promotes
Reminds us to stay open to suffering and
Ruminates upon the empty nature of fear itself
“If you keep shining your compassion and understanding on it, your fear will soon crack and you will be able to look into its depths and see its roots.” – Joseph Goldstein