The Neurodiverging Podcast Kate McNulty's Love and Asperger's: Relationships on the Spectrum
Jul 29, 2021
Kate McNulty, an autistic Certified Gottman Therapist and author, shares her insights on relationships in her new book, focusing on couples with differing neurotypes. She discusses common issues in neurodiverse dynamics and the importance of mutual understanding. The conversation sheds light on the communication challenges faced by these couples and introduces effective conflict resolution strategies. Kate also emphasizes the necessity of self-identification for those on the spectrum and explores the quest for neurodiversity-affirmative therapy.
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Kate's Autism Discovery Story
- Kate McNulty shares how initially dismissing autism in her family gave way to self-discovery and deeper understanding.
- Realizing autism explained so much about her family and herself fueled her specialization in autism therapy.
Reject Harmful Autism Stereotypes
- Many relationship guides wrongly depict autistic people as problems to be fixed, which alienates autistic readers.
- Understanding autism from within, rather than through outdated stereotypes, supports healthier mixed neurotype relationships.
Accommodate Sensory Needs in Dating
- Mixed neurotype couples should recognize sensory and pace needs behind reluctance to socialize.
- Planning low-key days before social events helps autistic partners engage at their best.
