The Covert Narcissism Podcast From “Bad Vegan” to Truth Teller: Sarma Melngailis on Covert Narcissistic Abuse and Self-Discovery
Sarma Melngailis—best known from the Netflix docuseries Bad Vegan—joins me to reveal the story the headlines never told. In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Sarma opens up about covert narcissistic abuse, repeated manipulation, and the long road of self-discovery that followed.
We explore how empathy, idealism, and even neurodivergence can make survivors more vulnerable to covert abuse—and how these same traits can also become sources of strength and healing.
In Part 1, we go beyond the public narrative into:
- The early relationship patterns that mirrored covert narcissistic abuse
- Why intelligent, capable people can still miss the warning signs
- The link between sensitivity, empathy, and manipulation
- Finding self-compassion after shame and public judgment
If you’ve ever felt unseen or misunderstood, this episode will remind you that your empathy is not your weakness—it’s your superpower.
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