The Daily Dad They’re The Only Ones In There
Mar 8, 2024
Dive into the importance of recognizing a child's autonomy! The discussion emphasizes how children understand their own feelings and preferences better than we often assume. It encourages parents to listen and respect their kids' unique experiences. Additionally, the concept of 'inner child work' is explored, highlighting the need for personal growth and breaking free from past parenting patterns. This insightful conversation challenges us to rethink parental assumptions and nurture individuality.
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Respecting Children's Autonomy
- Remind your kids they're the only ones in their bodies, so they know what they like.
- Avoid imposing your preferences, especially on low-stakes matters like clothing choices.
The Corrosive Effect of "Knowing Better"
- Assuming we "know better" than our kids erodes their self-understanding and autonomy.
- It makes them vulnerable to external pressures, ironically contrary to our intentions.
Inner Child Work
- Ryan Holiday keeps a childhood photo as a reminder for "inner child work."
- This therapeutic practice helps him understand his past needs and avoid repeating parenting mistakes.
