A New Way of Being

How to Love Yourself (Even When There’s No Self)

Nov 11, 2025
Dive into a unique exploration of self-love and the illusion of separation. Discover how awakening dissolves fear, leading to profound love and acceptance. Embrace the wisdom of children for authentic presence, while recognizing how childhood patterns influence our emotional responses. Understand the difference between people-pleasing and true loving actions driven by intuition. Learn to take responsibility for your emotions, and find freedom in aligning with your inner truth.
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INSIGHT

Separation Is An Illusion

  • Non-duality reveals separation as an illusion and dissolves the fear born from feeling separate.
  • Realising you are the universe experiencing itself leads naturally to love, joy, and peace.
INSIGHT

Fear Comes From Feeling Separate

  • Belief in separateness creates fear, zero-sum thinking, and tribalism that fuels societal dysfunction.
  • Seeing separation as illusory removes that fear and opens the way for love and cooperation.
ANECDOTE

A Child Shows Unapologetic Presence

  • Simon describes his two-year-old daughter as unapologetically herself and delightfully without agenda.
  • Her behaviour illustrates natural presence and why we love children and animals for their honest expression.
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