338: [Soapbox] The problem with "you're not meeting my needs"

n this episode of The Betters Sex Podcast, hosted by sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman, the focus is on exploring the implications of framing sexual desires as needs within intimate relationships. Jessa discusses the potential problems that arise when individuals feel their sexual needs aren't being met by their partners, and stresses the importance of viewing desires from a mutual perspective. She encourages listeners to reflect on what they truly gain from sex and consider if those desires can be met through other means or in varied ways with their partners, emphasizing collaboration and shared experiences for a more fulfilling relationship.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex

01:06 Exploring Sexual Desires as Needs

02:28 Understanding the Pressures on Sex

04:10 Shifting the Focus to Mutual Desires

06:51 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

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