Nir And Far: Business, Behaviour and the Brain Why Seeking Approval is Killing Your Potential
May 12, 2025
Ever felt that rush of joy from a like or a compliment? The discussion reveals how seeking external approval can trap us in a cycle of anxiety and hinder our true potential. Artists often battle this need for validation, risking their creativity. Instead, the conversation encourages embracing self-worth and nurturing intrinsic motivation, allowing individuals to thrive authentically. It’s a compelling exploration of breaking free from the judgment of others and unlocking your true capabilities.
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External Approval Limits Potential
- Seeking approval makes your self-worth hostage to others' fickle opinions.
- This cycle prevents you from living life on your own terms independently.
Frida Kahlo's Artistic Perseverance
- Frida Kahlo's paintings, initially overshadowed, became more famous than her husband's.
- Her perseverance despite rejection shows how ignoring criticism fosters lasting impact.
Validation Harms Psychological Needs
- External validation undermines autonomy, relatedness, and competence needed to thrive.
- Making self-worth dependent on others increases anxiety and reduces performance.