The Jefferson Fisher Podcast How to Respond to Rude Comments
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Jul 30, 2024 Discover effective strategies for responding to rude comments without losing your cool. Learn how questioning intent and using curiosity can transform negative encounters into constructive conversations. Avoid common pitfalls that can escalate tensions, and engage with grace in challenging interactions. This insightful discussion equips you with the tools to handle passive-aggressive remarks like a pro!
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Three Responses to Rude Comments
- When facing a rude comment, consider these three responses.
- Use "Did you mean…?", check with questions like "Are you okay?", or respond with silence.
Rude Comments as Tests
- Rude comments test your reactions, like a card game where escalating rudeness leads to a lose-lose situation.
- Responding with more rudeness justifies their initial comment and escalates the conflict.
Clarify Intent with "Did you mean…?"
- Use "Did you mean…?" to clarify the intent behind a rude comment.
- This gives the commenter a chance to rephrase or explain, avoiding arguments.