YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, MEd

Social Media’s Viral Neurodiverse Couple on Love & Marriage

Aug 6, 2025
Join Adam and Becca James, a viral TikTok couple, as they dive into the joys and challenges of their neurodiverse marriage. Adam, a home health physical therapist, shares his perspective as a neurotypical partner, while Becca, a nurse, opens up about her late autism diagnosis and the impact of masking. They discuss communication hurdles, emotional disconnects, and the tension between sensory needs and affection. Their candid humor and relatable experiences shed light on what it truly means to love and be loved across different neurological landscapes.
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Burnout in Nursing Career

  • Becca experienced burnout and meltdowns in her nursing career due to sensory overload and overwhelming demands.
  • She transitioned to home health nursing, which was a better fit for her sensory needs and allowed more manageable patient interactions.
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Sensory Boundaries vs. Physical Touch

  • Adam recalls how Becca's sensory overload requires her to have space and quiet to recharge.
  • This clashed with Adam's love language of physical touch, creating challenges early in their marriage.
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Burnout After Childbirth

  • After having their daughter, Becca reached a state of burnout and exhaustion.
  • This significantly reduced her emotional bandwidth, making it harder to engage socially or manage family demands.
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