Pillow Talks Episode 191: Breaking Free From Purity Culture And Religious Shame
Jan 16, 2025
The discussion dives into the challenges of escaping the grip of purity culture. Personal stories illuminate the harmful effects of religious shame on sexuality. The hosts offer practical tips for fostering self-acceptance and healthier attitudes. They critique societal expectations, especially on women, shedding light on unfair purity standards. Emphasizing the importance of open dialogue and personal agency, they invite listeners to redefine their beliefs about sexuality and reclaim their narratives.
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Shame and Suicidality
- One listener felt disconnected from God after premarital sex, leading to suicidal thoughts.
- They felt unworthy of life but eventually found healing after leaving the church.
Loss of Agency
- One woman's mother forbade an endometriosis test due to hymen concerns.
- Another felt obligated to always please her husband sexually to prevent infidelity.
Sexualized from a Young Age
- An early bloomer was constantly accused of being seductive, even in normal clothes.
- She internalized this shame and resorted to covering up, prioritizing men's comfort over her own.