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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

2227: [Part 2] How to Tell If You're Too Picky With Guys or Settling by Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach on Dating Advice

Jul 2, 2024
11:31
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Dating coach Melissa Josue discusses distinguishing between being too picky and settling in relationships. She emphasizes self-awareness, aligning choices with personal vision, and not compromising essential values. Josue stresses the importance of understanding true needs, making conscious decisions, and prioritizing happiness and fulfillment.
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Quick takeaways

  • Settling involves denying needs, leading to unhappiness; accepting means choosing consciously, staying true to vision for fulfillment.
  • Revisiting relationship criteria is crucial; recognize personal growth, adjust expectations, find supportive partner for individual aspirations.

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Understanding the Difference Between Settling and Accepting in Relationships

Settling in a relationship involves denying or compromising your needs to make it work, resulting in potential long-term unhappiness. On the other hand, accepting means consciously choosing the current circumstances without denying your needs, staying true to your vision for life and relationships. An example discussed involves a personal realization about balancing travel desires with family responsibilities, demonstrating how aligning with one's core values leads to fulfillment and happiness.

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