How To Academy Podcast New York Times columnist David Brooks - How to Know Others and Be Truly Seen
Dec 8, 2023
David Brooks, a New York Times columnist and bestselling author renowned for his insights into character, dives into fostering deeper human connections. He challenges listeners to see beyond surface interactions, advocating for vulnerability and emotional understanding. Brooks explores the transformative power of storytelling in empathy and highlights the contrasting effects of 'illuminators' and 'diminishers' in relationships. He emphasizes the necessity of social skills in education and encourages authentic communication for meaningful connections.
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Brooks' Upbringing
- David Brooks comes from a reserved Jewish family where open emotional expression wasn't common.
- Their family culture was "Think Yiddish, Act British," emphasizing cerebral discussions over emotional vulnerability.
Ending Conversations
- End conversations gracefully by highlighting a specific point you enjoyed.
- Then express your overall pleasure in talking, leaving a positive final impression.
Brooks' Transformation
- Oprah Winfrey noticed a positive change in David Brooks over time.
- This transformation involved becoming more emotionally open and expressive, even singing a love song to a stranger's eyes.