The Libido Fairy Podcast #108: Answering Your Questions About Libido, Desire, And Relationships
Sep 28, 2025
Hannah dives into real questions about intimacy, tackling the art of receiving oral sex with tips on reassurance and communication. She shares her favorite somatic practices to enhance presence during intimate moments. The reality of libido enhancers is explored, revealing they often fall short without a solid relational base. Plus, she offers innovative ways to initiate sex and emphasizes healing resentment through clear boundaries and mutual effort. Learn step-by-step methods to revive your libido and reconnect with your desires!
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Build Comfort With Receiving Oral
- Ask your partner for real-time reassurance about taste, smell, and their enjoyment while receiving oral sex.
- Use gradual exposure steps and pause when overwhelmed to build comfort with receiving oral sex.
Daily Somatic Practices For Presence
- Use slow deep breathing and tactile self-touch daily to bring awareness into your body.
- Practice simple somatic tools like hand hugs, belly breaths, rocking, and orienting to regulate your nervous system.
Gummies Aren't A Libido Fix
- Libido enhancers like gummies or chocolates can be fun additions but are not foundational fixes.
- Hannah states they rarely work if the relationship lacks communication or a baseline of pleasurable sex.