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Productive conflict resolution and the growth it offers in relationships, reflecting on personal development through conflict engagement. Taking risks, embracing curiosity, and seeing feedback as an opportunity for growth are emphasized.
Exceptional relationships are defined by authenticity, mutual respect, and the ability to share personal experiences without fear of judgment. The significance of nurturing honest interactions and addressing disagreements constructively is highlighted.
Addressing emotional literacy and the need to enhance one's ability to express feelings in relationships. The importance of navigating conflicts by staying true to one's emotions and utilizing effective communication strategies is discussed.
Solitude promotes self-reflection, aiding in understanding one's emotions and behaviors. The balance between introspection and external feedback from relationships is key to building a solid self-concept and facilitating personal growth.
Language plays a vital role in communication in relationships, focusing on non-judgmental, factual expressions to avoid misinterpretations. Having a common communication vernacular and understanding the power of constructive feedback in interactions is crucial.
Journaling serves as a tool for processing and internalizing learnings from relationships, helping individuals integrate feedback and insights. The benefits of intentional solitude in fostering self-awareness and improving relational dynamics are underscored.
Having four or five exceptional relationships is a realistic goal that requires time, commitment, and intention for personal growth and connections. All relationships require continuous effort and a willingness to work on deepening them through risk-taking and honest communication.
As people evolve, relationships may no longer fit, leading to the challenge of moving on from connections that no longer serve. It can be difficult to part ways with relationships that have changed over time, especially when personal growth has shifted dynamics. Managing conflict and growth within relationships is essential for continued personal and inter-relational development.
Digital communication presents challenges in fostering exceptional relationships, often shifting the focus onto tasks rather than connections. While face-to-face interactions provide nonverbal cues crucial for understanding, digital interactions can still enhance personal connections by focusing on sharing feelings, expressing emotional states, and deepening understanding of one another.
I believe that in many ways, the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. Good quality relationships help us with our physical health, our mental health and our happiness.
Today, I’m delighted to welcome two fantastic guests who are experts on how we can all build exceptional relationships. David Bradford and Carole Robin taught interpersonal skills to MBA students for a combined seventy-five years in their legendary Stanford course, Interpersonal Dynamics (affectionately known to students as “Touchy-Feely”). They have also coached and consulted with hundreds of executives all over the globe. Now, they’ve brought their invaluable lessons to all of us, in their fabulous book Connect: Building Exceptional Relationships with Family, Friends and Colleagues.
We begin the conversation by defining what exceptional relationships are and why it is so important for us to have them in our lives. We talk about the concept of being ‘over the net’, which is a brilliant tool that you can use in interactions with others to make sure that you’re only ever owning your reality – not telling other people how they’re feeling or what they’re doing wrong. We talk about the risk involved in raising issues in a relationship and how we might prefer to avoid confrontation. But while there’s a risk in expressing your feelings, there is a cost to silence. David and Carole share a powerful example of a major setback in their own friendship, and how they managed to overcome it.
There’s much more to discover in this conversation, including thoughts on parent-child relationships, friendships that are no longer nourishing, and how we can improve our digital interactions. David and Carole’s world-famous course may be taught around leadership, but their wisdom is relevant to us all. I thoroughly enjoyed having this conversation and I hope you enjoy listening.
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