Do you ever date someone who is out of your league in a negative way? I sure have. Partly it's been out of my desire to not hurt people's feelings, give people a chance, and be kind. But there's also another part of dating down that a codependent can get stuck in- dating someone "less than" so that I (unconsciously) can feel like I have control and the upper-hand in the relationship. It's not a conscious decision, but my instinct pulls those matches to me since I operate a lot in the dating world out of fear.
What are your thoughts on re-dating the same person? I'll tell you why I think it's a no-no.
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