The Dr. John Delony Show

My Husband Never Has Time for Me or the Kids

Dec 10, 2025
Elizabeth, a new mother of two under two, shares her struggles with parenting while her husband works long hours in big law, leading to feelings of isolation and jealousy. John Delony encourages her to seek help and build a supportive community. They discuss the importance of having tough conversations about priorities and setting clear expectations in their marriage. Additionally, they touch on themes of faith and family dynamics, advising on how to navigate toxic relationships and create new traditions.
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ADVICE

Don't Parent In Isolation

  • Motherhood was never designed to be done alone; ask for help and build support.
  • Hire help or create community playdates to reduce isolation and practical burden.
INSIGHT

Expectations Versus The Postpartum Reality

  • Expectations and reality often diverge once a new baby arrives and schedules intensify.
  • Recognize that forewarning about busyness doesn't remove the emotional toll of loneliness.
ADVICE

Challenge Lies That Keep You From Help

  • Confront internal lies that stop you from getting help, like 'hiring help means I'm not enough.'
  • Decide what support you need and actively recruit it rather than waiting for it to appear.
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