Almost 30 793. Are Women Too Successful for Love? The Truth Behind The Modern Dating Crisis
Sep 2, 2025
Logan Ury, a relationship expert and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, dives into the modern dating landscape. She discusses the rising challenges successful women face, from societal expectations to the scarcity of compatible men. Logan unpacks the myths surrounding romantic sparks, advocating for the value of 'slow burn' connections. She also explores emotional intelligence in relationships, offers advice for navigating attachment styles, and shares practical dating app hacks to foster genuine connections.
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Women Outpacing Men Creates A Dating Gap
- Women have accelerated in education and earnings while many men lag behind, creating a dating mismatch.
- This shift reduces available hypergamous matches and reshapes modern relationship expectations.
Dating Shifts Affect Marriage And Fertility
- The decline in couple formation affects broader social trends like marriage and fertility.
- Fewer formed couples contribute to falling fertility and near-record-low marriage rates.
Provider Role Replaced By Emotional Currency
- Men were historically taught provider roles and now face new emotional expectations they weren't prepared for.
- Women often ask for emotional support but may struggle to receive male vulnerability without discomfort.
