The Money Gains Podcast Money Moments 24 - Why Talking About Money Can Make Or Break A Relationship (Bekah Donovan)
Oct 10, 2025
Bekah Donovan, a financial relationship coach, dives into why money conversations are crucial in dating. She emphasizes the importance of discussing financial compatibility early to avoid relationship pitfalls. Bekah shares tips on broaching money topics without scaring off potential partners, and highlights how income reflects deeper values. She also suggests practical questions to uncover habits and advises on handling saver vs. spender differences with curiosity. Tune in to explore how childhood experiences shape financial behaviors in relationships.
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Communication Trumps Perfect Answers
- You cannot say the wrong thing to the right person if open money conversations matter to them.
- Poor communication, not money, is often the root cause of relationship issues.
Probe Values Behind Financial Wants
- Start dating with clarity about the values behind financial preferences, not just numbers like salary.
- Ask why a trait (e.g., six-figure salary) matters to reveal deeper values like ambition or growth mindset.
Income ≠ Financial Competence
- High income doesn't guarantee money competence or good household financial management.
- Professional background (accountant, advisor) doesn't ensure healthy shared finances.