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Etiquette, by Emily Post, Part 5

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Sep 18, 2023
Emily Post advises on calls, social climbing, and leaving cards. Also explores earning respect, bride's calls, establishing oneself in a new community, the art of hosting, and the etiquette of visiting cards.
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INSIGHT

Position Comes From Personal Deposits

  • Life is a bank where you deposit character, intellect, and heart and draw only what you have invested.
  • Social position follows from genuine civic virtue, not from sham or vanity.
ADVICE

Return Calls Promptly After Marriage

  • Brides of good family should return every call within two weeks and keep visiting cards organized.
  • Do not invite mere acquaintances until they have invited you and your husband first.
ADVICE

Cultivate Likableness, Not Superiority

  • New brides who are strangers should cultivate likableness through a happy expression and unaffected manners.
  • Avoid affected poses, conceit, or constant comparisons to where you came from.
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