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Sex and Psychology Podcast

Episode 341: How To Stop Feeling Distracted During Sex

Nov 1, 2024
In this engaging conversation, Dr. Emily Jamea, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and author of Anatomy of Desire, tackles the modern distractions impacting our sexual experiences. She explains how technology and multitasking can hinder intimacy, sharing practical strategies to enhance presence during sex. Discover the concept of 'flow state' and its importance for pleasure, alongside techniques for embodying connection through touch. Jamea's insights aim to help couples deepen their relationships and cultivate passion through mindful practices.
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Quick takeaways

  • Modern distractions, particularly from technology and multitasking, hinder individuals' ability to be fully present and engaged during sex.
  • Practicing embodiment and intimate touch enhances sexual experiences and fosters deeper connection between partners, promoting overall relationship satisfaction.

Deep dives

The Rise of Multitasking and Its Impact on Sexual Presence

Many individuals today struggle to be fully present during sex due to the rise of multitasking in their daily lives. The constant engagement with technology and social media contributes to split attention, making it difficult to transition into the singular focus required for pleasurable sexual experiences. In a world where people are often trying to juggle multiple tasks simultaneously, it becomes challenging to clear one’s mind when entering intimate moments. The speaker emphasizes the need to practice slowing down and disconnecting from external distractions to help individuals better connect with their bodies during sex.

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