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The Thais Gibson Podcast

THESE Are the Top Avoidant Triggers That Make Them Run Away

Dec 23, 2024
Discover the intriguing inner world of dismissive avoidants as they unravel the triggers that prompt retreat in relationships. From the vital need for personal space to the fears tied to vulnerability and intimacy, the speakers provide insights on managing these complex dynamics. Explore how unresolved childhood issues shape their communication styles and the emotional hurdles they face. Learn practical strategies for fostering empathy and healthier connections, ensuring you understand avoidant behaviors better than ever.
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Quick takeaways

  • Dismissive avoidants react strongly when their need for personal space is threatened, often leading to emotional withdrawal in relationships.
  • Excessive communication or clinginess can overwhelm dismissive avoidants, creating feelings of entrapment and increasing their desire for emotional distance.

Deep dives

The Role of Independence in Dismissive Avoidants

Dismissive avoidants value their independence and will react strongly if they feel it is being threatened. This stems from their upbringing where emotional neglect led them to become self-sufficient and create emotional distance from caregivers. When their need for alone time is disrespected, they may feel suffocated and overwhelmed, leading them to shut down or withdraw. Recognizing this need for personal space is crucial for those in relationships with dismissive avoidants to foster a healthier connection.

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