Modern Wisdom #891 - John Vervaeke - The Psychology Of Finding Meaning In Life
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Jan 18, 2025 
In this insightful discussion, John Vervaeke, a professor specializing in the psychology of meaning, dives into the intricate relationship between sense-making and social connection. He critiques conventional views on meaning in modern life, emphasizing personal agency and the importance of community. Vervaeke explores how parenthood and altruism can enhance fulfillment, along with the psychological impact of the contemporary meaning crisis. He highlights transformative life lessons and the essential role of genuine relationships in fostering true happiness.
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Meaning in Life Dimensions
- Meaning in life involves sense-making, human connection, and self-deception.
- It's about aligning with standards of what's real, good, and beautiful.
Critique of Standard Meaning Metrics
- Standard meaning metrics (coherence, purpose, significance) are inadequate.
- They miss the connection to realness and the normative aspect of meaning (praising a life).
Realness in Romantic Relationships
- Vervaeke's students value romantic relationships highly.
- However, they would end a relationship if their partner cheated, valuing realness over pleasure.