PsycHacks Episode 525: Delusional women (understanding female entitlement)
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Jun 9, 2025 The discussion highlights how women over 40 face unique challenges related to menopause and its effects on their dating lives. It dives into the unrealistic expectations many women hold about their romantic value, often shaped by media influences. The podcast contrasts these perceptions with the delusions of wealthier men, showcasing a double standard in romantic aspirations. A personal story illustrates the disconnect between self-image and the quest for extraordinary partners, revealing the pitfalls of such beliefs in the dating world.
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Cultural Narratives Fuel Female Delusion
- Modern cultural narratives reinforce an unrealistic female delusion that average women can attract extraordinary men.
- This delusion is perpetuated by media like Twilight and Fifty Shades of Grey, shaping women's dating expectations.
Assortative Dating Reality Check
- Assortative dating shows people generally pair with others of comparable value; big mismatches are rare except in exploitative relationships.
- The delusion that an average woman deserves an extraordinary man ignores this reality and hinders finding real partnerships.
Fantasy Harms Real Relationship Chances
- Many average women forego satisfactory relationships for fantasies with no basis in reality.
- Clinging to such fantasies reduces their chances of forming successful real-life partnerships.
