Episode 333: What It’s Like To Have Sex On Psychedelics
Oct 4, 2024
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In this lively discussion, Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator known for her expertise at the intersection of psychedelics and sexuality, dives into the intriguing effects of MDMA, psilocybin, and ketamine on sexual experiences. She explains how these substances can enhance emotional connections while also presenting unique challenges. The conversation highlights the importance of informed, consensual use and open communication with partners, as well as the therapeutic potential of psychedelics in resolving sexual difficulties. Tune in for insights on combining sex and psychedelics mindfully!
MDMA enhances sexual experiences by increasing emotional intimacy and sensations, but can make achieving orgasm difficult due to serotonin effects.
Psilocybin can deepen connection and intimacy during sex, but requires careful dosage and awareness of its transformative, and sometimes overwhelming, effects.
Deep dives
MDMA and Sexual Intimacy
MDMA, commonly known as ecstasy, is known to enhance sexual experiences due to its stimulating effects, often resulting in heightened sensations and emotional intimacy. Users frequently report feeling more vulnerable and open to sharing intimate truths, which can foster deeper connections between partners. However, while users often report intense pleasurable sensations, many find it difficult to achieve orgasm due to the way MDMA affects serotonin receptors, creating a paradox where pleasure is heightened but orgasm is elusive. This drug is also increasingly recognized in therapeutic contexts, showing promise in couples therapy by helping partners address underlying tensions and foster emotional bonds.
Psilocybin's Effects on Sexual Experience
Psilocybin, the active compound in magic mushrooms, is gaining attention not only for its therapeutic potential but also for its unique effects on sexual experiences. Users often report increased feelings of embodiment, openness, and a deeper connection to both themselves and their partners, enhancing the intimacy of their encounters. The consumption method, like lemon-tacking, can intensify the effects, leading to transformative and even overwhelming experiences, which necessitate careful dosage considerations. Research shows that psilocybin may boost neuroplasticity, allowing lasting emotional benefits beyond the immediate high, making it a compelling option for those addressing personal or relational issues.
Ketamine's Unique Challenges in Sexual Contexts
Ketamine, primarily known for its use in clinical settings, poses unique challenges in sexual contexts due to its dissociative properties that can lead to disconnection from bodily sensations. While lower doses may help with pain sensation, the risk of entering a 'K-hole' can complicate consent and awareness, making it crucial to navigate such experiences with a trusted partner who prioritizes safety and communication. Users must tread cautiously, as the analgesic effects can mask physical injuries, leading to potentially harmful situations. Therefore, thorough pre-communication regarding boundaries and safety is imperative when considering ketamine in a sexual context.
Comparative Analysis of Substances and Their Effects on Sex
The discussion highlights important distinctions between alcohol, a common sexual enhancer, and psychedelics like MDMA, psilocybin, and ketamine. Alcohol is a central nervous system depressant that can hinder bodily awareness and lead to negative sexual experiences, including regret and impaired decision-making, making it a risky choice for intimate encounters. In contrast, psychedelics are often associated with enhanced sensations and emotional connections, although they also come with their own set of complexities regarding individual reactions and dosing. Understanding these differences is essential for individuals considering substances to enhance their sexual experiences, as each substance can significantly shape both pleasure and safety.
Psychedelic use is at an all-time high among young adults. These drugs are used for many purposes, but often for sex. So let’s talk about “trippy” sex. In this episode, we’re going to discuss the sexual effects of several common psychedelics, the potential benefits and risks of these drugs, and what people who wish to combine sex and substances need to know in terms of having safer and more pleasurable experiences.
I am joined once again by Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and certified sexologist. She has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual brand, which has also expanded to include psychedelics. She is co-author of the book The CBD Solution: Sex.
Some of the specific topics we discuss in this episode include:
How does MDMA/ecstasy affect people’s sexual experiences?
What are the sexual effects of psilocybin and ketamine?
Why do different people experience different effects from psychedelics?
How do psychedelics compare to alcohol in terms of their sexual impact?
What conversations should you have with a partner before combing drugs and sex?
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