Navigating Friendship Expectations

Finding balance in friendships often revolves around the natural dynamics of effort between friends. Individuals should avoid keeping score in friendships, as this can create tension and expectations that may lead to disappointment. A healthier approach involves matching the level of effort of the other person, particularly in the early stages of a friendship, to create a sense of mutual engagement. Paying attention to the patterns of interaction can help avoid misunderstandings and foster a more organic friendship evolution.