Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Tell Me I'm Not Alone
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Oct 2, 2023 A couple confronts the consequences of an affair, reflecting on the pain and meaning behind their actions. The podcast explores the importance of accountability, caution with money risks, and processing emotions of loss and rage. The therapist helps the couple foster trust, vulnerability, and a sense of being chosen by their partner.
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Meaning in Affairs
- People in affairs often find deep personal meaning in them.
- They may feel guilty for hurting their partner, but not about the affair itself.
Husband's Hurt
- The husband was shocked by his wife's quick affair and felt betrayed.
- He supported her independence, which she seemingly used to have the affair.
Wife's Transformation
- The wife's affair was a personal journey of individuation and growth.
- She became more assertive and present in the relationship.