It can be a struggle to balance chores in a relationship. When one or more people in the relationship have ADHD, there’s even more room for miscommunication. It’s important to be on the same page about expectations, or you may end up with resentment, and more fights than you’d like to.

KC Davis wrote the book How to Keep House While Drowning, and hosts the podcast Struggle Care. KC joins host Cate Osborn in this episode of Sorry, I Missed This to talk about care tasks, sharing the load, and getting on the same page.

Related resources

KC Davis’ website, strugglecare.com
Tackling organization, clutter, and stress with hyperfocus (Wendy’s story)
ADHD and messiness

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Sorry, I Missed This: Managing expectations in relationships