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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

2177: How to Know Who Loves You Best by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Relationship Counseling & Finding Lasting Love

May 19, 2024
09:40
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Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a relationship counselor, discusses the nuances of love and belonging in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and accepting imperfections in our loved ones, highlighting the profound connections that define our closest relationships. The podcast explores vulnerability, trust, gratitude, and intentionality in fostering genuine connections with others.
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Quick takeaways

  • Belonging in relationships involves understanding intentions behind words and actions.
  • Recognizing consistent understanding and forgiveness during difficult moments reveals true care and love.

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Understanding True Belonging Through Intentions

Belonging is not about mind-reading but about understanding the intentions behind words and actions. Dr. Kelly Flanagan emphasizes the importance of seeing beneath the surface to truly know who loves you best. He shares personal anecdotes where loved ones recognized unspoken meanings, like the daughter referring to an incubator as an escalator and the wife understanding the husband's desire to get her a napkin. True belonging occurs when others grasp and appreciate our intentions, even surpassing our own understanding at times.

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