Nir And Far: Business, Behaviour and the Brain The Hidden Power of Social Comparison
Mar 31, 2025
Discover the surprising dual nature of social comparison—it's not just a source of envy! Learn how it can motivate personal growth and redefine your sense of success. Reflect on how our reactions to others’ accomplishments can lead to self-doubt and sabotage. Dive into strategies that turn comparison into a powerful tool for improvement instead of a happiness killer. This eye-opening discussion challenges conventional wisdom and reveals the hidden benefits of comparing yourself to others.
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WhatsApp Acquisition Self-Doubt
- Nir Eyal felt self-doubt after learning about Facebook's WhatsApp acquisition.
- He questioned why he hadn't created a similar app, illustrating the common experience of social comparison.
The Hidden Power of Comparison
- While social comparison is often seen as negative, it's a natural human tendency.
- Research suggests it can be a motivator, not just a source of unhappiness.
The Secret Mentor
- Nir Eyal's friend uses a "secret mentor" as a benchmark for success.
- This comparison, while sometimes discouraging, often motivates her by showing what's possible.