PsycHacks Episode 488: Mother love vs. father love (understanding their strengths and liabilities)
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Dec 9, 2024 Explore the fascinating contrasts between mother love and father love and their lasting impacts on emotional development. Unconditional maternal affection is essential, while the often conditional nature of father love shapes perceptions of competition and discipline. Discover how these dynamics influence adult relationships and the psychological challenges that can arise from parental absence. The discussion also highlights the potential for healing and encourages engagement with the insights shared.
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Mother Love and Unconditional Positive Regard
- Mother love, in its ideal form, closely resembles unconditional love.
- This stems from the intimate physical and emotional connection between mother and child.
The Mommy Wound
- A "mommy wound" develops from the absence or corruption of mother love.
- This leads to feeling unworthy of existence and becoming a people-pleaser.
Unconditional Love in Adulthood
- While crucial in early childhood, expecting unconditional love as an adult is problematic.
- It creates a narcissistic mindset ill-suited for adult relationships.
