Before Breakfast

Second Cup: Substance first, balance after that

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Oct 5, 2025
Discover the importance of pursuing work you love before negotiating for balance. Focusing on substance can prevent dissatisfaction from chasing schedule-only jobs. Learn how to gain flexibility at work by proving your value first. The common notion of work-life balance is critiqued, revealing it as a misleading concept that suggests work and life are at odds. Ultimately, true career satisfaction stems from enjoying what you do, rather than just working fewer hours.
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ADVICE

Prioritize Work Substance First

  • Focus on the substance of the work before prioritizing schedule or flexibility.
  • Then negotiate or seize the balance you want once the job's core excites you.
ANECDOTE

Why She Chose Self-Employment

  • Laura explains she didn't choose self-employment for flexibility but to write what she wanted to write.
  • Flexibility became a perk of building a profitable solo career rather than the original goal.
INSIGHT

Balance-First Choices Can Backfire

  • Choosing a job solely for balance can lead to boredom and feeling underpaid over time.
  • Strict demands (like never traveling) narrow options more than flexible compromises do.
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