Ever been blindsided by a nosy question? Learn how to tackle those awkward moments with poise. Discover three effective strategies to regain control and respond with confidence. Whether it's in a professional setting, family gathering, or casual chat, you’ll be equipped to handle uncomfortable inquiries seamlessly. You'll find out how silence and boundary-setting can empower your responses, keeping conversations on your terms.
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The Power of Silence
Use silence strategically when faced with an inappropriate question.
Pair the silence with a facial expression that conveys disapproval without words.
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Question Their Intent
Ask questions like "What's your intent?" or "What makes you want to know?".
These responses allow you to address the inappropriate question without escalating the situation.
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Lighthearted Deflection
Deflect inappropriate questions with lighthearted responses like "I like to keep a little mystery".
This maintains a friendly tone while setting boundaries.
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From communication expert Jefferson Fisher, this book provides immediately actionable strategies and phrases to transform your life and relationships by improving your communication. Fisher, a trial lawyer and leading voice on real-world communication, offers a tried-and-true three-part communication system (Say it with control, Say it with confidence, Say it to connect) that can be applied to any situation. The book teaches how to assert yourself, set boundaries, frame conversations, and overcome conflict with connection, ensuring that your every word has a positive impact on your relationships.
Ever been caught off guard by a question that feels too personal, invasive, or just plain inappropriate?
You’ve probably found yourself scrambling for the right way to respond—without getting flustered or defensive.
Good news: You don’t have to answer those questions, and you don’t have to let them derail your confidence.
In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 ways to deal with inappropriate questions that put you back in control, without causing a scene.
These 3 approaches will help you respond with confidence, keeping the conversation in your hands and on your terms.
Whether it’s at work, with family, or in social situations, these tips will help you handle those uncomfortable questions without missing a beat.
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