We Can Do Hard Things 40. FALLING IN LOVE: Is there really “the one” or is “the one” YOU?
Nov 2, 2021
The hosts dive into the dizzying experience of falling in love, sharing personal stories and insights. They debate the romantic notion of 'the one,' with Abby arguing for it and Amanda calling it uninteresting. Glennon compares loves to plants, emphasizing that every relationship, even fleeting ones, contributes to our growth. They also discuss the common misconception that love can fix us, stressing the importance of self-acceptance and personal growth. Ultimately, they champion the idea that true love begins from within.
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Childhood Yearnings
- Abby Wambach always believed in soulmates, while Glennon Doyle yearned for divine love.
- Both recall childhood memories of looking at the stars, seeking something beyond themselves.
Fixers and the Fixed
- Abby sought a soulmate to fix her, while Glennon sought God for the same reason.
- They both believed an external force could solve their internal struggles.
Two Sides of Love
- People either seek love to be fixed or believe they can fix others with love.
- Both perspectives reveal a focus on external solutions for internal issues.