All Ears English Podcast AEE 2510: NYT Author Maya Rossignac-Milon Shares How Riffing Builds Connection in English
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Nov 10, 2025 
Maya Rossignac-Milon, an Assistant Professor at IESE Business School and social-psychology researcher, dives into the art of connection. She shares her insights on moving past awkward small talk and transforming conversations by 'riffing'—a technique that builds on others' remarks, akin to jazz improvisation. Maya explains how authenticity invites genuine interactions and emphasizes the power of inside jokes to deepen connections. Her recent collaboration with The New York Times explores these themes, blending research with practical advice for creating memorable dialogues.
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Friendship Born From Riffing
- Maya Rossignac-Milon met Erica Boothby at a conference and their small talk turned into playful theories about coffee and pets.
- That spontaneous riffing sparked a lasting friendship and inspired their New York Times article.
Build By Riffing Not Reciting
- Try riffing: build on what the other person says instead of exchanging facts.
- Create a unique shared mini-universe to explore together and deepen connection.
Playfulness Fast-Tracks Friendship
- Playfulness in adult small talk fast-forwards to the spirit of childlike friendship.
- Treat new acquaintances as potential friends by embracing playful improvisation.