Joining the conversation are Matthew Hussey, a relationship expert and author, Esther Perel, a psychotherapist specializing in intimacy, DeVon Franklin, who explores faith and relationships, Dr. Shefali, an expert in conscious parenting and relationships, and Stephan Speaks, focusing on communication. They delve into crucial red flags in dating, the importance of shared values, distinguishing love from lust, and the need for transparency in communication. The discussion emphasizes emotional maturity and self-awareness as foundations for healthy relationships.
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Overcoming Entitlement in Dating
Entitlement in dating leads to unfulfilling relationships.
Invest effort in personal growth and developing competence in love.
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The Importance of Being Multifaceted
Matthew Hussey shares a personal story about a painful breakup.
His ex-girlfriend told him he was "boring" because he became one-dimensional and overly focused on ambition.
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The Power of Unique Pairings
Over-reliance on one strength can become a weakness in relationships.
Combine strengths with other qualities for unique pairings to become more attractive and irreplaceable.
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The Art of Intimacy: How to Build a Thriving Relationship
The Art of Intimacy: How to Build a Thriving Relationship
Stefan Speaks
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Get the Guy
How to Be the Kind of Woman the Kind of Man You Want to Marry Would Want to Marry
Mathew Hussey
In 'Get the Guy,' Matthew Hussey provides a comprehensive guide to help women navigate the complexities of dating and relationships. The book is divided into three main sections: 'Find the Guy,' 'Get the Guy,' and 'Keep the Guy.' It emphasizes the importance of proactive approaches to finding love, such as creating conversations and engaging in daily social interactions. Hussey also discusses the 'Attraction Formula,' the art of creating great dates, and strategies for maintaining a long-lasting relationship. The book encourages women to raise their standards, cultivate desirable traits, and adopt a mindset of abundance rather than scarcity in their love lives.
THE WAIT
Devon Franklin
In this New York Times bestseller, DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good share their personal journey of waiting, including abstaining from sex until marriage, to highlight how waiting can lead to deeper connections and more fulfilling relationships. The book offers practical advice on how waiting can transform relationships by fostering patience, trust, and faith.
The Conscious Parent
Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children
Shefali Tsabary
In 'The Conscious Parent', Dr. Shefali Tsabary offers a profound approach to parenting that views the parent-child relationship as a mutual journey of growth and spiritual awakening. The book challenges conventional parenting wisdom by suggesting that children serve as mirrors of their parents’ forgotten selves, prompting parents to examine their own emotions, past experiences, and egoic patterns. It emphasizes the importance of presence, self-awareness, emotional validation, and setting appropriate boundaries, advocating for a discipline approach that focuses on teaching rather than punishing. The book aims to help parents create a nurturing environment where both they and their children can grow and thrive[1][4][5].
Mating in Captivity
Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Esther Perel
In this book, Esther Perel explores the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, arguing that our cultural penchant for equality, togetherness, and absolute candor can be antithetical to erotic desire. Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel uses case studies and lively discussions to demonstrate how more exciting, playful, and poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining independence, mystery, and the space between self and other to sustain desire.
Today’s episode is a special mashup episode focused all about the biggest red flags in dating that you should never ignore! We’ve had a lot of incredible conversations with relationship experts and therapists that I know will help you gain clarity on wherever you currently are in your love life.
In this episode we discuss the biggest mistake you’re most likely making in your relationship, why it’s so important for your values to match, how to understand the difference between love and lust and so much more!
The School of Greatness 
