Episode 479: Understanding men (rich, attractive, or loyal)

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Nov 8, 2024

Explore the intriguing dynamics of men's desirable traits in relationships, revealing that they usually possess only two out of three: wealth, attractiveness, and loyalty. Delve into the archetypes of men—the passionate Romeo, the loyal patron, and the charming playboy—each with unique complexities. Learn about women's romantic preferences and the allure of Playboys while challenging the mythical 'Prince Charming' ideal. This insightful discussion encourages self-reflection on realistic expectations in love.

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INSIGHT

Men's Traits

Men can be rich, attractive, or loyal, but realistically, women get two at most.
These traits are "expensive" to cultivate, so having all three is rare.

INSIGHT

Rarity of Traits

Most men aren't naturally rich, attractive, or loyal, making finding even one trait fortunate.
A man claiming loyalty might lack options, not virtue.

INSIGHT

Initial Loyalty

Men initially offer loyalty because it requires less effort than wealth or attractiveness.
They understand loyalty increases their chances with women.

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Ladies: a man can be rich, a man can be attractive, and a man can be loyal. However, you can only get two – max. This is because any one of these attributes is very expensive to cultivate, and no one will pay more than they need to for the same good. As a result, we collectively consider it lucky if a man has even one of these attributes – which makes two exceedingly rare and three overkill. In this episode, I take a look at the three archetypes in turn: the Romeo, the Patron, and the Playboy. Understanding men will improve your chances of getting what you want from them.

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